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[Two Pronged] Are my mom's actions considered sexual abuse?

Oct 12, 2017 - 8:00 PM

This week, Two Pronged reader Michael asks our duo about certain experiences he had growing up

[Two Pronged] My boyfriend prefers his sister to me

Oct 01, 2017 - 9:35 PM

A woman says her boyfriend's sister is too close for comfort. She also seeks advice on his erectile dysfunction.

[Two Pronged] Seeking closure

Sep 24, 2017 - 8:20 PM

This week's letter sender asks for help on how to fix her long-distance relationship with her boyfriend

[Two Pronged] Reduced to quickies

Sep 17, 2017 - 4:35 PM

Are quickies really important in a marriage?

[Two Pronged]: Friends without benefits

Sep 11, 2017 - 5:19 PM

Toni seeks advice about her relationship with her husband

Illustration by Alyssa Arizabal

[Two Pronged] A brother-in-law's temptation

Sep 04, 2017 - 4:37 PM

Anna s brother in law confides in her about his sexual temptations

[Two Pronged] Depression and my career

Aug 30, 2017 - 11:18 AM

Cora writes to our Two Pronged duo asking what to do about her future in light of the mistakes she s made in the past

[Two Pronged] How to get over my online alter ego

Aug 13, 2017 - 7:15 PM

A reader asks how to escape his online alter ego as it nearly cost him his long term relationship and may even cost him his career

Illustration by Alejandro Edoria/Rappler

[Two Pronged] Gay and impotent

Aug 06, 2017 - 7:00 PM

I m attracted to some women but I ve only had sexual encounters with men – am I gay?

Illustration by Raffy de Guzman

[Two Pronged] Experiencing pain during sex

Jul 30, 2017 - 8:25 PM

This week s letter sender Elena asks how to be intimate with a man who is well endowed

Illustration by Nico Villarete/Rappler

[Two Pronged] Getting over jealousy after emotional infidelity

Jul 25, 2017 - 2:05 PM

A wife asks if she should still trust her husband after discovering his history of emotional infidelity

Illustration by Ernest Fiestan/Rappler

[Two Pronged] Performance anxiety

Jul 17, 2017 - 7:55 PM

Al says he s having problems with his erection because of his wife s harsh words

Illustration by Ernest Fiestan/Rappler  Illustration by Ernest Fiestan/Rappler

[Two Pronged] Should I continue seeing my boy toy?

Jul 12, 2017 - 7:50 PM

A married woman asks for advice on how to handle her illicit affair with a younger man

[Two Pronged] Penis size problem

Jun 28, 2017 - 12:51 PM

Are penis enhancement methods safe and effective?

[Two Pronged] 'Momol' to prepare for potential heartbreak?

Jun 13, 2017 - 10:40 PM

This week s sender wants to know if making out with different men is good practice for when she finally gets a serious relationship or suffers heartbreak

[Two Pronged] Dealing with a difficult mom

Jun 06, 2017 - 3:25 PM

Tina seeks advice on how to deal with her mother who she says is narcissistic and controlling

[Two Pronged] Selfish in bed?

May 22, 2017 - 8:29 PM

In this week s Two Pronged Lia says when she tries to initiate sex her husband rejects her

[Two Pronged] Is it worth it to stay in this relationship?

May 07, 2017 - 3:29 PM

Bel a reader asks our Two Pronged duo if she should stay in her unhappy sexless second marriage

[Two Pronged] Asking the wrong questions

Apr 24, 2017 - 12:08 PM

Roseanne asks Should I feel guilty all throughout my life and believe that I was all alone to blame for why I became a wayward spouse?

[Two Pronged] My panty-sniffing habit

Apr 18, 2017 - 2:35 PM

Michael says he has a habit of sniffing women s underwear and asks Do I have a problem?

[Two Pronged] What do I do about my disloyal friend?

Apr 11, 2017 - 5:20 PM

Nina feels her ex boyfriend s sister – who happens to be her friend – betrayed her What does she do in this situation?

[Two Pronged] Depression, comparison, and competition

Apr 02, 2017 - 1:36 PM

Jeremy Baer dishes some tough love in this column – but Dr Holmes has another perspective in this Two Pronged column about a successful student going through some tough times

[Two Pronged] Virginity and uncertainty

Mar 26, 2017 - 4:24 PM

I have to find out what really happened that night whether Jamey put his thing in me or not But he said he would respect me So I don’t think he did

[Two Pronged] Am I still a virgin?

Mar 19, 2017 - 8:49 PM

My mother told me men just want one thing from a woman and once they get that they leave her Is this why he is behaving this way?

[Two Pronged] Should I mind my own business?

Mar 12, 2017 - 4:33 PM

When your friend asks you to interfere directly in her problems with her husband should you do so or leave it between them?

[Two Pronged] The distance between me and my sister

Mar 07, 2017 - 6:15 PM

It s sad that we allow this foreigner to get in the way in a supposedly beautiful relationship between me and my sister

[Two Pronged] I'm cheating on my long-distance fiancee

Feb 26, 2017 - 3:39 PM

I asked for time off in our relationship and also our marriage because I cannot take what I am doing I cannot tell her

[Two Pronged] Am I selfish if I want to postpone my wedding?

Feb 19, 2017 - 5:17 PM

I want to explore the world Travel meet friends and do silly things He is now looking forward to start a family have kids and settle But what about me?

[Two Pronged] My kids don't like my second wife

Feb 12, 2017 - 4:08 PM

How can we convince them that my wife is not the gold digger their mother portrays her to be?

[Two Pronged] My first boyfriend broke up with me

Feb 05, 2017 - 5:44 PM

How do you forgive someone who is not even sorry?

[Two Pronged] I'm inadvertently his 'mistress'

Feb 01, 2017 - 12:19 PM

I haven t had any boyfriends yet but I m already the third party A mistress if you will

[Two Pronged] Can I sue my abusive girlfriend if she leaves me?

Jan 19, 2017 - 6:15 PM

A man loves his abusive girlfriend and refuses to leave her but wonders whether he can file a case against her if she breaks up with him

[Two Pronged] I kept quiet about my feelings for him

Dec 14, 2016 - 3:32 PM

During our conversations he mentioned that he felt that I liked him more than his wife sometimes he felt that getting married was a wrong decision

[Clinical Notes] Seeking approval from parents, family

Dec 11, 2016 - 7:02 PM

Why do we seek approval from others and how do we do so? Dr Margarita Holmes explores in the context of one Two Pronged reader s situation

[Two Pronged] My secret history of sleeping around, cheating

Dec 07, 2016 - 6:12 PM

But with Alma it was different I fell in love with her It wasn t just great sex; we clicked

[Two Pronged] Nosy friends

Nov 27, 2016 - 9:28 PM

May nangyari ba sa inyo? One woman is tired of facing this intrusive question from her overbearing friends

[Two Pronged] Serial flirt

Nov 20, 2016 - 9:06 PM

Even if I know this is not good I still tolerate it because I really do feel that he loves me anyway and this is just something he couldn t help

[Two Pronged] Will he cheat again?

Nov 13, 2016 - 7:20 PM

Leon left Gelli for Kara Now he s back with Gelli and insists nothing s going on with Kara anymore But will that last time really be the last?

[Two Pronged] My husband and his erectile dysfunction

Nov 06, 2016 - 3:02 PM

A woman who says she married her husband to get rid of a guy stalker is now worried that he hasn t been performing in bed

[Two Pronged] 'Mixing business with pleasure'

Oct 31, 2016 - 7:09 PM

A woman is close to a guy who offered to be her manager Problem is she s not seeing any income from the jobs she s getting because of him

[Two Pronged] Peeping on my sister-in-law

Oct 25, 2016 - 4:03 PM

I fantasized about my sister in law and recently I attempted to peep on her while she was showering I got caught

[Two Pronged] Husband ignores me though I'm beautiful, sexy

Oct 16, 2016 - 1:44 PM

Very often when we have sex he doesn’t seem that interested or aroused

[Two Pronged] Relationship status? I don't know where I stand

Oct 09, 2016 - 12:08 PM

I am happy when I m with him and I don t know if that s something I am willing to give up soon

[Two Pronged] Can dad still change? Is my mom just weak?

Sep 11, 2016 - 2:35 PM

Anna is left to deal with her father s molestation of other women while her mom never came home to help her deal with it She asks if her dad can still change and says she feels her mom is the root cause of the conflict

[Two Pronged] Sugar mommy

Sep 04, 2016 - 2:56 PM

I bring food to his house after work pay when we have movie dates It makes me look like a young sugar mommy…We have sex in his house and I give him money in return says one woman who says she is still unclear about her relationship status with the guy she s dating

[Two Pronged] Is my boyfriend a porn addict?

Aug 28, 2016 - 9:20 PM

I always feel depressed that he prefers watching porn rather than having sex with me Is he a porn addict?

[Two Pronged] My husband refuses to celebrate any occasion

Aug 21, 2016 - 4:40 PM

Her husband says birthdays anniversaries getting awards these are just ordinary situations – but she doesn t agree

[Two Pronged] He cheated, got me pregnant, and left me. Should I still fight for him?

Aug 14, 2016 - 2:35 PM

One woman asks our Two Pronged duo if she should fight for her husband – a man who s left her cheated on her and doubted her fidelity What should she do?

[Two Pronged] I'm into 'golden showers'

Aug 11, 2016 - 8:54 PM

Our Two Pronged duo answers the questions of one man who says he needs to urinate on women to get turned on

[Clinical Notes] Threats

Aug 07, 2016 - 6:16 PM

Sometimes threats reveal more about the person making them than people notice Margarita Holmes examines some threats made by one man who identified himself as the featured gentleman in a previous Two Pronged