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[Two Pronged] On fidelity and fairness

Feb 11, 2018 - 7:15 PM

This week's letter sender asks our columnists about whether she should stay in her long-distance relationship or move on

[Two Pronged] Voyeurism and more

Feb 04, 2018 - 7:00 PM

This week's letter sender asks our columnists if her husband's voyeurism is related to depression and anxiety

[Two Pronged] Can love and desire coexist?

Jan 28, 2018 - 6:00 PM

Two Pronged reader Art loves his girlfriend but is unsatisfied with their sex life

[Two Pronged] Overstaying Mom

Jan 21, 2018 - 7:00 PM

Ben seeks advice on what to do about the tension between his wife and mother

[Two Pronged] Mom from hell

Jan 14, 2018 - 3:30 PM

OFW Kate seeks the advice of our columnists on how to to deal with her mother back home

[Two Pronged] Moving On

Jan 07, 2018 - 8:00 PM

Natalie seeks the advice of our columnists on how to move on from her failed relationship from a foreigner

[Two Pronged] Love, Lust or Limerence?

Jan 01, 2018 - 1:57 PM

Nic asks our columnists if he's suffering from love, lust, obsessive love/lust or limerence

[Two Pronged] All she wants for Christmas is an orgasm

Dec 24, 2017 - 1:04 PM

Lara wants to please her boyfriend, who makes her feel inadequate

[Two Pronged] 13 years and still waiting for marriage

Dec 17, 2017 - 5:25 PM

Sue, who is in a long-distance relationship, asks if she has a reason to be hurt that her boyfriend rejects the subject of marriage

[Two Pronged] A second chance?

Dec 10, 2017 - 7:15 PM

This week's letter sender asks if she still has a chance of rekindling a relationship that she ended 13 years ago

[Two Pronged] My uncaring secret fiancé

Dec 03, 2017 - 8:31 PM

Ann asks if she's being illogical or immature, or if it's her fiancé whose behavior is cause for worry

[Two Pronged] Threesome fantasy

Nov 26, 2017 - 11:07 PM

A husband asks if he should pursue his fantasy of having a threesome with his wife and another man

[Two Pronged] Should I stay with my cheating husband?

Nov 19, 2017 - 8:00 PM

Elsa asks our columnists if she should stay in her marriage, despite the distance between her and her husband

[Two Pronged] To stay or not to stay?

Nov 12, 2017 - 10:56 PM

Carla asks if she should hold on to her relationship, despite a lack of affection from her partner

[Two Pronged] Penis size angst

Nov 05, 2017 - 8:50 PM

Al asks our Two Pronged columnists if size still matters

[Two Pronged] Is it shyness?

Oct 29, 2017 - 5:55 PM

Rita asks our Two Pronged duo if her shyness caused the tension between her and her friend Becca

[Two Pronged] Are my mom's actions considered sexual abuse?

Oct 12, 2017 - 8:00 PM

This week, Two Pronged reader Michael asks our duo about certain experiences he had growing up

[Two Pronged] My boyfriend prefers his sister to me

Oct 01, 2017 - 9:35 PM

A woman says her boyfriend's sister is too close for comfort. She also seeks advice on his erectile dysfunction.

[Two Pronged] Seeking closure

Sep 24, 2017 - 8:20 PM

This week's letter sender asks for help on how to fix her long-distance relationship with her boyfriend

[Two Pronged] Reduced to quickies

Sep 17, 2017 - 4:35 PM

Are quickies really important in a marriage?

[Two Pronged]: Friends without benefits

Sep 11, 2017 - 5:19 PM

Toni seeks advice about her relationship with her husband

Illustration by Alyssa Arizabal

[Two Pronged] A brother-in-law's temptation

Sep 04, 2017 - 4:37 PM

Anna s brother in law confides in her about his sexual temptations

[Two Pronged] Depression and my career

Aug 30, 2017 - 11:18 AM

Cora writes to our Two Pronged duo asking what to do about her future in light of the mistakes she s made in the past

[Two Pronged] How to get over my online alter ego

Aug 13, 2017 - 7:15 PM

A reader asks how to escape his online alter ego as it nearly cost him his long term relationship and may even cost him his career

Illustration by Alejandro Edoria/Rappler

[Two Pronged] Gay and impotent

Aug 06, 2017 - 7:00 PM

I m attracted to some women but I ve only had sexual encounters with men – am I gay?

Illustration by Raffy de Guzman

[Two Pronged] Experiencing pain during sex

Jul 30, 2017 - 8:25 PM

This week s letter sender Elena asks how to be intimate with a man who is well endowed

Illustration by Nico Villarete/Rappler

[Two Pronged] Getting over jealousy after emotional infidelity

Jul 25, 2017 - 2:05 PM

A wife asks if she should still trust her husband after discovering his history of emotional infidelity

Illustration by Ernest Fiestan/Rappler

[Two Pronged] Performance anxiety

Jul 17, 2017 - 7:55 PM

Al says he s having problems with his erection because of his wife s harsh words

Illustration by Ernest Fiestan/Rappler  Illustration by Ernest Fiestan/Rappler

[Two Pronged] Should I continue seeing my boy toy?

Jul 12, 2017 - 7:50 PM

A married woman asks for advice on how to handle her illicit affair with a younger man

[Two Pronged] Penis size problem

Jun 28, 2017 - 12:51 PM

Are penis enhancement methods safe and effective?

[Two Pronged] 'Momol' to prepare for potential heartbreak?

Jun 13, 2017 - 10:40 PM

This week s sender wants to know if making out with different men is good practice for when she finally gets a serious relationship or suffers heartbreak

[Two Pronged] Dealing with a difficult mom

Jun 06, 2017 - 3:25 PM

Tina seeks advice on how to deal with her mother who she says is narcissistic and controlling

[Two Pronged] Selfish in bed?

May 22, 2017 - 8:29 PM

In this week s Two Pronged Lia says when she tries to initiate sex her husband rejects her

[Two Pronged] Is it worth it to stay in this relationship?

May 07, 2017 - 3:29 PM

Bel a reader asks our Two Pronged duo if she should stay in her unhappy sexless second marriage

[Two Pronged] Asking the wrong questions

Apr 24, 2017 - 12:08 PM

Roseanne asks Should I feel guilty all throughout my life and believe that I was all alone to blame for why I became a wayward spouse?

[Two Pronged] My panty-sniffing habit

Apr 18, 2017 - 2:35 PM

Michael says he has a habit of sniffing women s underwear and asks Do I have a problem?

[Two Pronged] What do I do about my disloyal friend?

Apr 11, 2017 - 5:20 PM

Nina feels her ex boyfriend s sister – who happens to be her friend – betrayed her What does she do in this situation?

[Two Pronged] Depression, comparison, and competition

Apr 02, 2017 - 1:36 PM

Jeremy Baer dishes some tough love in this column – but Dr Holmes has another perspective in this Two Pronged column about a successful student going through some tough times

[Two Pronged] Virginity and uncertainty

Mar 26, 2017 - 4:24 PM

I have to find out what really happened that night whether Jamey put his thing in me or not But he said he would respect me So I don’t think he did

[Two Pronged] Am I still a virgin?

Mar 19, 2017 - 8:49 PM

My mother told me men just want one thing from a woman and once they get that they leave her Is this why he is behaving this way?

[Two Pronged] Should I mind my own business?

Mar 12, 2017 - 4:33 PM

When your friend asks you to interfere directly in her problems with her husband should you do so or leave it between them?

[Two Pronged] The distance between me and my sister

Mar 07, 2017 - 6:15 PM

It s sad that we allow this foreigner to get in the way in a supposedly beautiful relationship between me and my sister

[Two Pronged] I'm cheating on my long-distance fiancee

Feb 26, 2017 - 3:39 PM

I asked for time off in our relationship and also our marriage because I cannot take what I am doing I cannot tell her

[Two Pronged] Am I selfish if I want to postpone my wedding?

Feb 19, 2017 - 5:17 PM

I want to explore the world Travel meet friends and do silly things He is now looking forward to start a family have kids and settle But what about me?

[Two Pronged] My kids don't like my second wife

Feb 12, 2017 - 4:08 PM

How can we convince them that my wife is not the gold digger their mother portrays her to be?

[Two Pronged] My first boyfriend broke up with me

Feb 05, 2017 - 5:44 PM

How do you forgive someone who is not even sorry?

[Two Pronged] I'm inadvertently his 'mistress'

Feb 01, 2017 - 12:19 PM

I haven t had any boyfriends yet but I m already the third party A mistress if you will

[Two Pronged] Can I sue my abusive girlfriend if she leaves me?

Jan 19, 2017 - 6:15 PM

A man loves his abusive girlfriend and refuses to leave her but wonders whether he can file a case against her if she breaks up with him

[Two Pronged] I kept quiet about my feelings for him

Dec 14, 2016 - 3:32 PM

During our conversations he mentioned that he felt that I liked him more than his wife sometimes he felt that getting married was a wrong decision

[Clinical Notes] Seeking approval from parents, family

Dec 11, 2016 - 7:02 PM

Why do we seek approval from others and how do we do so? Dr Margarita Holmes explores in the context of one Two Pronged reader s situation